It Starts With The Fear Of Failure

I have created this blog to share my experience of life and my experiments to deal with the problems of life. One of the biggest problems of life is the fear of failure, right now as I start this blog there is a fear in my mind that may be I won't be able to attract much readers or may be this blog will fail miserably. Hundreds of negative thoughts are going through my mind. The mind is full of ideas but as I sit here in front of the keyboard the mind goes blank because of the fear of failure but the most important thing is that even if I fail at blogging there is nothing to loose but a lot to learn. I can learn what the people like and what they don't, I can learn to improve my writing skills and I can learn how to tell what I actually want to tell or explain in a better way. 

As I type further the fear starts to go away and I am thinking that may be it's not going to be that bad, may be I won't fail and even become a successful blogger. Everything that we do depends totally on our perception and the way we think. If we have a positive attitude towards life and what we do then we are most likely to succeed at it and if we are demoralized and think negatively then failure is probable. Failure actually teaches us what  success doesn't, it teaches us the real worth of success and humility. Failing at something is not the end it's only the beginning of a betterment, for instance if a student fails in an exam that is not the end of the world for him, there is always a chance of doing better or if someones relationship fails then it never means that that person should never get into a relationship again. Failure is an undeniable part of life and the best teacher.

It is very commonly said that "failure is not an option" well in my opinion failure is an option because like it is important to succeed it is also important to fail at something. Failure somehow makes us a better person and brings out the best in us and it's OK to fail and just let go because sometimes failure also teaches us that the thing which we were trying to succeed at was never really that important to put so much effort into. Till now in my life failure has played a viral role in order to achieve success. As this blog post is coming to an end the fear of failure in my mind has reduced and it is being replaced by a hope of succeeding but it does't mean that I will succeed may be I would still fail but that's a part of life. We start with the fear of failure and after working hard there are high hopes of succeeding but sometimes we still fail but failure is not the end, it motivates us to comeback stronger and do better than before.