We Are All Being Judged

The most common problem that we face today which holds us back from doing what we want or following out heart is that we are all afraid of being judged. The fear of being judged is a thing that we all go through in our daily life and this kills a lot of dreams on a daily basis. In order to achieve success or follow our heart this is the most important thing we need to get rid of. If one wants to follow his/her heart then he/she should do so without fearing anyone or anything. One can never achieve success or taste failure if he/she constantly feels the pressure of being judged.

We criticize people who judge others but this is something we also do regularly. If you want to start to do something than just listen to yourself and start. I attended a creativity conference last year where we were told by the instructor to draw apples for sixty seconds, the shape of every apple shall be different from the other and nobody will judge what your are doing as nobody was allowed to look at what others were doing. In those 60 seconds the attendants of that conference drew hundreds of different shapes of apple with some even drawing an apple iPhone,writing A for Apple and even an apple falling from the tree on Newton's head. People were able to be creative when there was no fear of being judged. At that time I realized that if we eliminate the fear of being judged from our mind then productivity can also increase. We become our own enemies and kill our creativity by fearing the judgement of others. We must liberate our mind and be free if we really want to achieve something in life. I can surely say that none of us like to be judged yet we judge others. Even if we don't like what someone is doing at least we can boost their confidence by appreciating their efforts instead of passing negative remarks and shake their confidence which can be very hurtful for them. Getting rid of the fear of being judged and listening to our heart can impact our lives in a positive way and make it a lot better.

Life won't be there forever so instead of getting demotivated by the demon of judgement of others we must do what is actually required in order to live a better life and fulfill our dreams. We only live once so why not live like the way we want to live instead of being driven by the opinions of others as we all have different thinking and emotions. We should learn to respect the thinking and feelings of every individual because what's not important for one can mean the world for the other. By stop judging and eliminating the fear of being judged we can make a difference in our society and make this world a better place to live.